Going through parental alienation is like undergoing an emotional death of your former self.

The pain of being separated from your child, often unfairly, dismantles the life you once knew and forces you into a state of grief, confusion, and loss. The person you were before—full of hope and confidence in your role as a parent—has to let go of the illusion of control over the situation. This ‘death’ of your former self is necessary for survival because clinging to what was can keep you trapped in the bitterness and anger that alienation fosters.

However, through this intense emotional process, you are also reborn. You must reshape your identity, emerging stronger and more resilient, not just for your sake, but for your child and a higher purpose. The experience forces you to develop a new understanding of life—one that might be grounded in faith, a sense of mission, or a broader purpose beyond yourself. This rebirth is about finding deeper meaning and strength, becoming a person who has endured great hardship but has learned to rise above it with a renewed sense of self-worth, patience, and spiritual insight.

This journey doesn’t mean forgetting the pain, but it does mean accepting the need for transformation. You become a person who believes in a higher calling, whether that is advocating for others in similar situations, deepening your faith in GOD, or simply realizing the importance of perseverance and love.

In essence, parental alienation can destroy who you once were, but it also offers a chance for profound personal growth and rebirth, as you become someone who sees life through a new lens of purpose, strength, and spiritual clarity.

Parental alienation will one day be a thing of the past as new laws and rising awareness work together to protect the bond between children and their parents. Through collective advocacy and legal reform, the future holds a promise of fairness and healing for families. We are moving toward a future where children are no longer weaponized in custody disputes with new legislation, education, and Judicial reform.

- Rober Garza